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  • Is Your Relationship Really Over? 3 Questions to Ask Yourself

    There comes a point in some relationships when you stop asking, “How do we fix this?” and start wondering, “Is there anything left to fix?” And honestly, that can be a very lonely place to be. You may still love him. You may still have good days. You may even look at your life together and think, *We have built so much.* But something doesn’t feel right anymore. If you’re there, take a breath. You don’t have to have the whole answer today. Sometimes the most helpful thing is to ask yourself a few honest questions. ## 1. Is Wanting…

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    @UnconventionalHelen

    September 27, 2026
    howto, relationships, separation&breakups
    Trial Separation, Relationship Advice, Relationship Problems, Relationship Doubts, Relationship Clarity, Marriage Problems, Separation Advice, Breakup Advice, Emotional Healing, Healthy Relationships, Relationship Communication, Signs a Relationship Is Over
  • Why Dating Isn’t Complicated (We Just Make It That Way)

    The Truth About Modern Dating: Stop Overthinking Mixed Signals If there’s one thing I’ve learned about dating, relationships, and human connections, it’s this: most situations aren’t actually complicated—we make them complicated.I’ve heard people say things like, “It’s complicated,” countless times. And every time, I find myself thinking the same thing.Is it really?More often than not, the answer is no.We spend so much time trying to decode texts, analyze silence, and create stories in our heads that we forget to look at what’s happening right in front of us. Let’s see…1. When Someone Stops Texting YouHave you ever been chatting with…

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    @UnconventionalHelen

    July 30, 2026
    building trust, personal development
    #awareness, #heturnedcold, #imisshim, #itscomplicated, building trust
  • To be or not to be Angry

    My beliefs?! Anger is healthy, as long as you don’t let it drive you, to make you bitter, as long as you know how to use it as a binder to change your life for the better. As me, you may have been taught that it is not good to express your anger. And indeed, if showing your anger meant hitting someone or let’s say, it made you irrational in one way or another, then yes, it is possible that someone said to you “Look, it is not OK to hit” or, worst, “Stop this, you are a bad kid!,”…

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    @UnconventionalHelen

    July 22, 2026
    building trust, personal development
    #angry, #awareness, #emotions, #health, anger, building trust
  • Help

    Are you willing to accept help from others? Or, better said…are you ready to accept help from others? You know, we are, somehow, conditioned to think that, if we accept help from another person, it’s a sign of weakness… It’s this whole concept if being independent… But… I think we’re not being true to ourselves, if we feel tired, overwhelmed, dissapointed, but still, refuse the help of others. Why is that? Aren’t we feelung worthy of getting help, are we feeling like we’re dissapointing somebody or ourselves, if we ask or agree to getting some help. What is it? I…

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    @UnconventionalHelen

    January 29, 2025
    personal development
    #awareness, #guiltfree, #personalgrowth, #selfworth, building trust, love
  • I want my ex Back!

    Are you crying over getting your ex back? Really? Are you sure that is your ex that you’re wanting back? You know, I’ve noticed that most of the time, when someone else says something—something I was also thinking about but disregarded at some point—it has the capacity to wake me up somehow.That is why I’m feeling the need to be that VOICE for you now. If you’re here, then I think you need to give this article a chance. I just heard someone saying that we all feel the need to give our love to somebody and feel loved in…

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    @UnconventionalHelen

    January 13, 2025
    building trust, personal development
    #awareness, #myex, #selflove, #selfworth, building trust, howto
  • NO, I DON’T FEEL GUILTY

    And why would I? I don’t feel guilty of getting a divorce, even if I have children with that man. I know, some say that it’s a terrifying thing, for a child to get through a his parents getting a divorce. But, is it really like that? If I choose peace of mind, for myself and my Kids; if I want them to see how to have a home where there is love between the two partners should look like; where they would feel safe and heard; where their mother and/or father are happy, at peace, not argueing or being…

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    @UnconventionalHelen

    August 2, 2024
    howto, personal development
    #awareness, #educatingourkids, #guiltfree, #selfworth, #transformationalcoach, howto
  • Getting unstuck – the last stage of a crysis

    I know this sound counterintuitive, but really, this is the last stage of a crysis, is where You will eventually arrive. You can arrive to the conclusion that You need to do something to move ahead and You can do it sooner or later, depending on how much attention you give to finding solutions, rather than analyzing the past. I will give You something to think about using…a technique I used and I am using, everytime I feel I am stuck, and that always works. Let’s say You’re struggling with the thoughts of wanting Your Ex back. I’m only giving…

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    @UnconventionalHelen

    June 2, 2024
    building trust, howto, personal development
    #crysis, #dowhatyoulove, #getunstuck, #personalgrowth, #selfawareness, #tactics, building trust, howto
  • The secret to a better life – Happiness is a choice

    Everything I did, I did it for bettering my life and the lives of my children, the ones I love. I did it from a place of benevolence, I did it trusting that I’m doing the right thing and that trust came from within. Every change I made in my life felt good from within.We all have that intuition that can guide us, if we pay attention to it and trust it.If you take a pause and think about a moment in time, in your past, I am sure you can find an evidence of your intuition knowing exactly what…

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    @UnconventionalHelen

    May 2, 2024
    building trust, personal development
    #awareness, #dowhatyoulove, #happiness, building trust, love
  • WHY DO MEN CHEAT?                                     Men/women cheat because they need admiration

    I’ve heared this today and…I agree with it…NOW. Let me explain… Going through such a challenge is painfull as hell. When you’re experiencing this, there are small to none chances to think of anything less than the fact that you were betrayed, you are not loved, you’re not enough, e.g. In time, the pain looses it’s strenghts and you can think clearer. If you’re a person who is willing to look for answers, taking into consideration the other side of “the story”, you might find interesting things. I heard this from men and I’ve also noticed  this “craving” for admiration…

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    @UnconventionalHelen

    April 18, 2024
    building trust, howto
    #awareness, #crysis, #gaslighting #relationshiptips #emotionalabuse, #howtodealwithbetrayal, #whydomencheat, building trust
  • Having kids

    I often think about the blessings that comes from having kids! I’m totally another person, since I have given birth to my first child, my awesome daughter…and another person since having my second child, my awesome son!❤️❤️ Being their Mom, helped me learn sooo much about unconditional LOVE, PATIENCE, JOY, having a PLAYFUL approach to things, GIVING YOURSELF PERMISION TO DREAM BIG, BELIEVING IN YOURSELF, how it feels to always have someone who thinks YOU’RE THE KEEPER OF ALL UNIVERSAL TRUTHS😁… I could go on like this forever, and I think there are many of You that can resonate with…

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    @UnconventionalHelen

    March 2, 2024
    personal development, Uncategorized
    #personalgrowth, dailyprompt, dailyprompt-1865, empowering, love, personal development
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