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Struggling with…
Creator’s Block… When I first started this…a few months ago, I was so thrilled, I was having tones of ideas of what I will post, when it will be posted, e.g. Then, little by little, I was going on almost every platform, struggling to post as much as I could, while having to take good
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Mom, how do I make new friends?
What do we say to our children when they tell us:“I don’t know how to make friends!”?I was thinking about this topic, as I got this affirmation from my preteenage daughter, and I realised that I didn’t gave her a really useful answer.As I want to guide my kids the best way that I can,
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What each one of us should pay attention to
The Cycle of blocked counterwill (part of Neufeld making sense of the counterwill course) 1. When you get stuck, your partner starts to do pressures; 2. When you feel pressured, you act the brakes; 3. When you get stuck in resistance, your partner has a tendency to remain stuck in insistence This 3 parts act
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What teenagers should know (2)
…then it probably is! I cannot stay and watch from the outside how our teenagers are affected by these manipulation techniques! I don’t know if this happened to you too, but each one of us have a friend, a child, maybe ourselves, that struggled with some inexplicable behaviours and we got to see the pain
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TEENAGERS…WATCHOUT FOR THIS
There are so many ways in which our self-esteem can be threatened by others behaviours that, sometimes, it scares me to think that we, as parents, would need another 24 hours and a good relationship with our child, to be able to point such things out to our children and that…we don’t have another +24hours
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The struggle…
We all go through life experiencing different types of struggle. When we’re a child, we struggle to learn as much as we can and to be able to do it ourselves. But, it’s a joyful struggle, because we don’t really feel the need to always be right, we don’t get to be upset so much
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What a teenager should know…(1)
The need to socialize and the need of belonging to someone or a group of people is a natural and undeniable human need. But, you gotta figure out the cost at which you’re getting these needs met. If the costs of it is way bigger then the return on your investments, it’s an illusion and
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The wrong way…
Sometimes, we, as parents, are so wrong as to how we react to something our child does, that it takes one word to make them feel bad, innapropriate, ashamed and a lot of work for us and for them to repair the damage we’ve caused. It’s 8 o ‘clock in the morning, and I hear
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Stop blaming…
We sometimes tend to blame everyone else for our life, for our day to day experiences, for feeling one way or the other. Why do you think this happens? It’s really easy to look for the mistakes in other’s behaviour, and convince ourselves that they are the only ones responsible for our sadness or other
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Stop putting yourself first…
These days, we hear these saying all around us Put yourself first! And I think it can be really damaging for the people that are in someones life, someone who hears these Words and doesn’t really know the meaning behind them. Just imagine… If I don’t know what this truly means and I start, all
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