What was your main struggle when faced with separation?
Mine was to make sure that my kids were doing alright.
I’ve watched them day and night to see if their mood is changed, if their schedule is changed somehow if they get enough sleep, if they eat the same way. I took them to see a psychologist to check all is within limits, given the changes in their life. I truly recommend doing that! It will give you the peace of mind that you deserve or it will give you hints on what needs to be done, for you and them to be safe and sound.
I know it can be very hard to take care of their feelings while still suffering, but I believe that is the only way you can be sure that their fears of abandonment or insecurities don’t get bigger, to the point where we have to work much more for them to trust in us and also in themselves and their lives
The Unconventional WOMAN 