The Unconventional WOMAN

Are you crying over getting your ex back?

Really?

Are you sure that is your ex that you’re wanting back?

You know, I’ve noticed that most of the time, when someone else says something—something I was also thinking about but disregarded at some point—it has the capacity to wake me up somehow.
That is why I’m feeling the need to be that VOICE for you now.

If you’re here, then I think you need to give this article a chance.

I just heard someone saying that we all feel the need to give our love to somebody and feel loved in return.

Hearing that made me step into that energy of love, of offering all the love I have to someone who makes me want to give in that way.
This felt warm, cozy, joyful, playful; this felt like being in my mother’s arms and listening to the lullaby she is singing to me to soothe me, to make me feel loved and accepted.
Who wouldn’t want to feel this way?

So, it is understandable why we are all constantly looking for love, to be in love and be loved.

But then, I asked myself:
1. Would I be  willing to share this kind of love, to give myself—all my energy, my peace of mind, my joyfulness—to my ex?
2. Haven’t I done that already?
3. Don’t I know how my love was received?
4. Do I feel safe when I’m imagining giving my love to my ex?
5. Is it really his/her love that I want and long for?
6. Is it the only place/person I can look for it in?
7. Do I love myself enough to acknowledge the answers that come to me when asking these questions, without trying to influence or filter them?

Each one of us has his or her answers.

I won’t try to figure it out for you. It won’t be fair or even accurate.
All I wanted to do, as I already mentioned before, was to be that voice that helps you have that aha moment that you needed!

Please, take a piece of paper, write these questions, and let yourself be heard. Write the answers that come first, without thinking them through.
Well…

Hope it helps! Hope you got your answer now!

LOVE U