The Unconventional WOMAN

So, I was watching the diary of a CEO and it was a talk with Joe Dispenza and this part hif me the most.
They were talking about the controversy arrived from this idea that we are responsible with how our lives appear. That it is not comftable for someone to admit that being where they are, meaning to feel lost, having lost a partner, a friend, a business, is not something we like taking responsability for.
And, at that point, Joe Dispensa said: Well, maybe that happened by default.

And that hit me! You know that saying if you don’t manage your time /life, someone else will do it for you?

It’s the same idea, wrapped in another way of saying it. Right?

He also talked about what “personality” means: how I think, how I feel and how I act. So, if I want to actively participate in my own life and be able to take responsability for it, I have to change something about my personality. One thing I could change is my thoughts.
So if I’m not consciously following my ideas of let’s say wanting to have a good day, then all is left to chance or to depend on someone else’s intentions. Why would I want that?

For the sake of our main topic: which is raising emotionally fulfilled children, even if we’ve separated from their father, this could translate into letting our children’s wellbeing at the mercy of a third party, right?
I wouldn’t want to do that, and I’m sure you wouldn’t want that eighther.
So, what can we do?

We could learn how to manage our thoughts from the first moment that we wake up and be positive about how our day would go.
By this exercise, when we’ll observe that it works, we’lI have more faith and courage to try to influence other parts of our lives. We could try to change the thoughts on how we should relate to the other parent, in order for us to be able to reach that goal of Raising our children as emotionally fulfilled individuals.

What would you say about that?
Would you like to be responsible for this great achievement?
I know I would and I am!
But, you know what I am also responsible for?
For everything not so good that happened in my life!
Yes, I’ve made a lot of mistakes; yes, I’ve been creating those hard times by paying attention to the negative side of things or by not giving them the right energy to function from, but now I am aware of this truth.

Love U❤️