The Unconventional WOMAN

We are all born in love.
We are all feeling happy, secure, loved When we’re born. Our souls are pure and full of joy.

We don’t really see very well, we don’t really hear very well, but we sense everything and we trust our senses. If we’re fed, huged, taken care of, all that love, that joy that we’re born with is Kept intact.

We trust our senses and the people who take care of us.

Is like a decision process took place and… an innocent soul has decided to love his caregivers.
So, if you are his caregiver, you should be conscious about the fact that no matter how you behave, no matter if you give him attention or not, YOU are his hero, YOU have his heart.

Why? Simply because he decided to love you and he believes you are worthy to be loved! He doesn’t need excuses to love you, he doesn’t need proofs, he just loves you, with all his heart.

I don’t know how many of us (the caregivers) think about this too often, but I think this is the greatest Gift Universe gave us.
What if we could stop, before yelling at them, shaming them or manifesting any of these not so great behaviours, and just think of this:

I am his Hero!

Would I like my Hero, …, the person that I love&admire the most, …, to treat me this way?
This can also work both ways.

When a child crosses those healthy boundaries, you could think of the fact that a Hero does what it takes, to keep his promises and keep their loved ones safe, even if it feels a bit uncomftable; while the child will feel safe, even if a bit uncomftable, because his Hero guides him, but with care&love.

What if we could return to that childlike state, and trust more, and decide to be the Hero that our child deserves, that we, ourselves, deserve to be?!

Just imagine how would it feel to be sad, but still feeling loved, to be angry, but still feeling loved, to be naughty, but still…LOVED

❤️