The Unconventional WOMAN

These days, we hear these saying all around us Put yourself first!

And I think it can be really damaging for the people that are in someones life, someone who hears these Words and doesn’t really know the meaning behind them.

Just imagine… If I don’t know what this truly means and I start, all of a sudden, to think only for me, for my benefit, disregarding all the needs of my loved ones, what will be the message that I’m sending?

I will confuse them and I will also deprive them of my needed help, even if we’re talking about the small things I used to do and that I just stopdoing, because I’ve heard that it’s all about me…

CAN YOU SEE THE TRICK HERE? I WOULD BET THAT MANY OF US HEAR JUST THAT…IT’S ALL ABOUT ME…disregarding the following word that gives the meaning of it, that being the word FIRST…

So, it’s about also taking care of my needs, even taking care first of my needs and wants, but after that comes the needs and wants of the ones I care for… After first, comes second, third, isn’t it?

So, if you don’t want to end up just being selfish, try to look deeper on the meaning of this and then, of course, apply it, it will make a great difference if you also take care of yourself. You cannot give from an empty vessel, isn’t it so?

Think about it… and let’s also take care of us, while taking care of the ones we love!

LOVE U!