The Unconventional WOMAN

“If you fight for your limitations, you get to keep them!”

When I first heard that, it sounded so true to me, that I started questioning what are those limiting beliefs that have kept me stuck or are keeping me stuck and, therefore, I cannot reach the clarity and fulfillment that I want?!
Let’s think about it…for example….
It’s amazing how we, as grown men or women talk ourselves out of doing something we would otherwise enjoy, by finding reasons like I have to do that right now, I should better stop this nonsense and go do my chores in the house, things that we categorize as being “mature thinking” but only prevent us in following our joy in life.
We say to ourselves that we are better off without those things, for us to not feel ashamed or guilty or because we learned that people judge us and we don’t like being judged or even don’t want to disappoint someone that we care for by choosing us over something we could have done for them.
We do this often with or about our Kids and I don’t think it helps each one of us or our Kids.
I think this only builds resentment and frustration for ourselves meanwhile teaching our Kids or our loved ones the belief that they will always have the right to demand priority.
Do we really want this for us and the ones we love?
It’s a life of complacency and frustration leading to unfulfillment something that we want for ourselves?
Is total and unconditional entitlement one of the lessons we would want our children to learn and apply throughout their life?
I think this is a very big question that we have to ask ourselves and be reminded of, as much and as often as needed, if we want to live a life of real love and joy and if we really want to give from an open heart.

You know that saying: “A belief is just a thought that we Keep thinking till it becomes a habit!”? And we all know that throughout our lives, we have created our habits or borrowed them from the ones we cared for or that educated us.

So, what if we take the time in knowing or observing when such limiting beliefs occur and we start changing them with something we are happy and comfortable about?
Of course, I am only talking about choosing good thoughts and creating healthy habits for us and our families, I think we can all agree on that😁!

I want us, together, to make a change starting today by transforming a limiting belief into a personally – fulfilling one.
Let’s take an easy one – I will choose not to jump like a crazy person when I’m being asked by my Kids to come to their rooms and instead feel good about myself while continuing reading that good book or listening to that podcast, continuing everything that I’m doing and enjoying it at the same time. And you know why this is a priority for one to change? Because I’ve searched for the reason behind my action, as it doesn’t feel quite good for me to leave all that I was doing and hurry up there, and the reason why I do it is that I’m afraid of them thinking about me that I’m not a good mother and therefore, I’m not good enough, a belief that sticks to me and manifests in all Kind of ways. Being a good mother to my children is also one of the most important things in my life, there’s why this limiting belief pushes me to go … right at that moment.
What is your limiting belief that comes to your mind and what are you planning on changing it with?

Leave comments herein and let’s keep each other accountable in repeating this new thought for, let’s say a week.
I will check your comments and I will come back to share my results and help you with reminding that we’ve set a goal and we are sticking to our plans! 🙂