The Unconventional WOMAN

Ps: tired of the term unconditionally, but totally agree with the meaning! 🤦‍♀️🤷‍♀️😁

Look at them and see how they put love into everything they do!

You can even see it with your eyes, not only feeling it.

Have you noticed how they look at you and pay attention to you, even when you’re not so – let’s say cooperative?

Have you had one of those days when you get home from work and you feel a bit ashamed of how you’ve reacted to something one of your colleagues said or did? You feel like a bad person for putting your colleague down just in that moment, just because he or she caught you in a bad mood?!

Then you come home and, being frustrated with that thought, you take it out on your children…

Still, you’re getting all of their love, through their behavior, their eyes, their demeanor. It’s like they’re observing your frustration and offering you that unconditional understanding, that “white pass” for your behavior, And you can feel that all of that’s coming from their genuine love!?

How would our lives look like if we’d stop and took this lesson like it would be coming from the most knowledgeable person we know and trust?

What if we took that lesson and apply it as much and as often as we could, with determination and trust in getting really good results starting… let’s say today?!

That will mean that for a few days, we should be consciously focusing on how we feel and how we act upon what’s brought to our attention by the people we interact with.

I’m not saying that you have to start loving each and every person you interact with. :))

I’m just saying to try being more compassionate with the ones that make you feel uncomfortable or frustrated, which can mean as little as thinking they have a bad day so it’s about them and their altitude not about you. We would also have to stop ourselves from reacting and delay our actions towards them – count to ten before responding, then see if your response can be oriented to what you want now.

I’m not gonna go further and ask you to contemplate longer on what could be bothering them, because I don’t want you to change your state of being too (I’m assuming you’re ok) 😊, but just try coming from a place of understanding without really understanding it. Tough one!

Love is acceptance and we learn this every day from our children who love us, even if we had a bad day, even if we’re not so pretty – literally 😊, even if … anything.

So, let’s learn acting from love ( giving the benefit of the doubt, accepting the uniqueness of one’s person, and not having expectations for them to act in a certain way).

All of this is LOVE and we definitely need it in our lives, maybe NOW more than ever before!!!

LOVE U